Filipino couple’s vocation to help challenged in US
Rey Canunayon and his wife, MaryGwen, in October at St. Adalbert Roman Catholic Church, the church they attend in Elmhurst, Queens. (Photo by MICHELLE V. AGINS/The New York Times)
NEW YORK—In 2007, Rey Canunayon and his wife, MaryGwen, immigrated to the United States from the island of Mindanao in the Philippines. In doing so, they were fulfilling their family’s dreams.
For years, MaryGwen’s parents had requested that she and her husband join them in New York City. But her parents died before that could happen.
Rey Canunayon felt remorse about not honoring his in-laws’ wishes while they were alive. Still, he and his wife wanted to embark on the adventure and make the move.
“America is a great nation, a kind nation, a nation of greener pastures and milk and honey and endless possibilities,” Canunayon said.
When the couple arrived, they stayed with MaryGwen’s family in New Jersey. Life was exciting, even relaxing, Canunayon said.
But as they settled in a new country, he struggled to find work and grew despondent.
“Oh, my God, I have cried a river because I was in a depression,” said Canunayon, now 46.
He found relaxation riding the subway, one station to the next, so long as it kept moving.
“When you come from a place where you are so familiar, your own country, you have friends, relatives, connections, a career. And then you’re stripped of everything except your dignity; it’s really hard,” he said.
Settling in
Eventually, the couple were able to move into an apartment of their own in Elmhurst, Queens. They also secured employment.
He works at a coin-op laundry, while his wife, 49, is a babysitter, a midwife and a nanny. In October 2015, they received their green cards.
Beyond that, Canunayon, who left a career in nonprofit work in the Philippines, has recommitted himself to working to help people and neighborhoods change for the better.
Only this time, he is not collecting a paycheck for it.
“God gave knowledge for free, skills for free, talent for free, so I’ll give it for free,” Canunayon said.
He volunteers at the couple’s place of worship in Elmhurst, St. Adalbert Roman Catholic Church. He also helps other Filipino immigrants.
“I cannot imagine myself not sharing the skills and God-given talent that I have,” he said.
But because this effort doesn’t come with a salary, it doesn’t help pay the bills.
It took one episode, when the Canunayons received a $600 medical bill for lab tests in September, for them to plummet into financial instability.
“It was a big problem, Canunayon said. “What will happen to us if we can’t pay the rent?”
Volunteer
He came across a possible solution on one of his volunteer outings for the Roman Catholic Diocese of Brooklyn and the Philippine consulate, where he was helping people renew their passports.
He mentioned his financial problems to Greg Hankins, a volunteer he had met that day.
Hankins encouraged Canunayon to contact another group, Community Health Advocates. It is operated by the Community Service Society, one of eight organizations supported by The New York Times Neediest Cases Fund.
The Community Service Society did help, providing $641.45 in Neediest Cases money to cover the couple’s outstanding medical bills. They also got help obtaining health insurance.
While grateful for the assistance, they continue to worry about everyday challenges: making ends meet, sending money back to their families and carefully monitoring their finances.
“It’s the same situation, financially struggling and trying to get myself back into the saddle,” Canunayon said.
Hope
He continues to search for jobs in the nonprofit sector.
In the Philippines, he worked in research, advocacy and policy legislation, which led to the development of sustainable organic agriculture to feed the poor. The cause was personal: Many members of his family are farmers.
Canunayon has not given up hope that he will find a job that lets him continue his passion for service while providing a decent income.
“I would be killing myself if I did something else,” he said. “It would deplete my energy. When you work on the things you most love doing, it’s not work.” —NEW YORK TIMES NEWS SERVICE
