‘I tried to persuade him to keep quiet’

The Filipino mother of a Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist who came out as an illegal immigrant in the United States told The Associated Press that she tried to persuade him to keep quiet.

Jose Antonio Vargas’ mother, Emily Abaga-Salinas, sent him from Zambales in the Philippines to live with his grandparents in California when he was 12 and has not seen him in person since.

She said in a telephone interview on Thursday evening that she worried about the consequences of his revelations to the US media and tried to stop him, thinking all of his hard work and achievements might be wasted.

“We could not understand … he was already there, he already achieved his dream, what else did he want?” she said.

At the end, she said she supported him because it was his choice.

A Vargas relative, who asked for anonymity, told the Philippine Daily Inquirer that the family had been apprehensive because Vargas’ disclosure to the media about his life as an illegal immigrant could affect other family members now living in the United States.

Sources in Zambales said Vargas’ mother, who now lives in Antipolo City, has remarried.

Vargas, 30, who shared a Pulitzer Prize for coverage of the Virginia Tech massacre as a reporter for The Washington Post, says he didn’t know about his citizenship status until four years after he arrived in the US, when he applied for a driver’s permit and handed a clerk his green card.

Vargas confronted his grandfather, who acknowledged he purchased the green card and other fake documents.

Salinas, 53, a former office assistant, told the AP that her son was ready for the consequences of his action—a possibility of deportation—and had already obtained a Philippine passport.

He has been wanting to see his family in the Philippines and has promised his younger sister, whose nursing education he is financing, that he would come home for her graduation next year, she said.

He also has a 14-year-old brother who he has only seen via the Internet.

“We are excited to see him,” Salinas added. “I just hope he can come home with his documents in order.”

When she sent him off to America, Salinas said she promised she would follow him and had applied several times for a US visa but was denied.

Unfulfilled promise

She said that she felt her son resented her unfulfilled promise and for a time after he went to college, he seldom called or wrote letters. But she said they reconnected after he joined The Washington Post.

Salinas, who separated from Vargas’ father when the boy was 3, said she could not afford to send her son to school in the Philippines. She said she sent him to his grandparents in the US because like any mother, she wanted a good future for him.

“In the beginning, there were times I would think I wish I did not send him there, I wish we could be together especially during special occasions,” she said. “But I saw what he was doing… I saw that he was achieving his dreams, getting the things which he could not get here.”  AP, Robert Gonzaga, Inquirer Central Luzon and Nina Calleja in Manila