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SAN FRANCISCO — I was waiting for my first son to be born, getting ready to be a tatay, when the Columbine Massacre happened in 1999.

I was stunned like the rest of the world. But I don’t remember being as distressed as I was on Friday when a gunman killed 20 little children and six adults in Newtown, Connecticut.

Certainly, parenthood was a reason. My eldest son is now 13. I have a younger son who is seven. The thought that inevitably crosses every parent’s mind when something like this happens: ‘My child could have been part of that.’

But thanks to my bunso I was spared the mind-numbing news barrage that I surely would have had to endure if I had been at work that day. I was home with him because he was sick. We didn’t have the TV on that morning and I didn’t get to use the computer much. We later had to go to the hospital for him to see a doctor.

As a result, I heard about the tragedy after most of America and the world already knew about what happened. Only when we got home did I get more details of the massacre.

Too many details, in fact. I’ve heard this story before, I thought. I decided to tune it out. That may be odd for a journalist to do. But it was not the kind of news I really cared to follow closely. It’s certainly not news that I wanted my son to hear.

I’ve covered only one massacre as a reporter. In 1993, I was part of the San Francisco Chronicle team that covered the shooting rampage that left nine people dead at 101 California in San Francisco’s Financial District.

And I’ve had my share of other stories of bloodshed, of violence that simply didn’t make any sense.

President Obama didn’t know how to make sense of the Newtown tragedy. I watched his speech online when he reacted as a fellow parent, a fellow tatay. I heard him tearfully call for meaningful action whatever that meant.

In any case, there surely will be a stronger call for gun control. But this isn’t just about out-of-control gun ownership. From my experience as a journalist, it’s usually about mental health.

I covered the trial of a young Filipino who stabbed a nine-year-old girl in Redwood City. She survived and even had the courage to testify during the trial.

In Richmond, I had to report on an even more gruesome attack inside a classroom. One day, the father a middle schooler entered the boy’s school and stabbed his son’s teacher in front of his class.

The assailants in both cases were mentally disturbed. In the Richmond case, authorities let me do a jailhouse interview with the man who attacked the teacher. He clearly was not well.

“The plan was to stab her, get out of there and go home and get arrested,” he told me in a rambling interview, while a sheriff’s deputy sat next to us. He was supposed to be on medication, he said, but “I haven’t been taking it because I know I’m not crazy.”

It was one of the weirdest interviews I ever did.

But that story had a happy ending of sorts. The teacher survived and returned to her classroom.

Perhaps the most stunning part of the story was what her assailant’s son did. The day after the attack, the boy returned to his school and apologized to the school for what happened. He was in tears. So were his teachers and the school staff.

There were tears but no happy ending in Newtown, Connecticut.

‘The world did end,’ a friend wrote on Facebook, referring to the legendary Mayan prediction of the world’s end on December 21.

I joined others in reposting a YouTube clip of the Carpenters song about children and innocence. It’s a beautiful ballad with the lyrics:

“Bless the beasts and the children

“For in this world they have no voice

“They have no choice

“Bless the beasts and the children

“For the world can never be

“The world they see …”

On Facebook, a few friends, expressing outrage and sadness, urged parents to hug their children.  I did that which probably made my son wonder what all the extra hugging was about.

The day ended with my bunso still unaware of what had just happened.

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  • henri_see

    Nutjobs + East access to guns + Media sensationalism = much tragedy

  • tra6Gpeche

    Mr. Obama might be the US President but
    there is nothing he can do. The power of the National Rifle
    Association is awesome. This Association is the richest and the
    mightiest group in America. Strict gun control, especially the guns
    that can kill at least 30 persons in half a second, will never
    happen in America. Just hope that our children will not be in the wrong place at
    the wrong time!

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_QHGUJ3OJZAOIMBYYWTABNV2EEM Ai

    “No parent should have to bury their child.” – King Theoden, Lord of the Rings (The Two Towers) 

  • http://profile.yahoo.com/KAAEZZZL7OMMZ5K4KCFETADLSM jerome

    Even though how hard/strict is  your gun control this can still happen. It is not the gun the kill this children and educators but rather the person holding it.

  • parengtony

    President Obama’s greatest contribution to society is his advocacy of placing parenting as  everyone’s most important responsibility. And he gives his all to be a good example. In this regard the man is selfless.

    • http://profile.yahoo.com/DC6NG5LRTD3HOCQPAYFQ53NWIY Crisanto

      Where did you get your idea? I live here Chicago for more than 20 years and never heard a thing or two what Obama did during his work as a State senator and US senator. He never even pass a single bill that would contribute to the society. What makes you so sure that he is a good father? Have you heard about the shooting in Fort Hood done by a MUSLIM and this president didnt even lift a finger because the shooter was a MUSLIM and same as he is.

      Hirap kasi dyan sa Pilipinas madami dada ng dada wala naman binabasehan.

  • http://profile.yahoo.com/OBTGTKV4SLI6HZCEV7AHTZA5XI Juanlatigo-olbulatego

    sure, mental illness is one issue, bad parenting is another, but inappropriate gun control and poor regulations just make the whole picture a complete mess.

    • http://profile.yahoo.com/DC6NG5LRTD3HOCQPAYFQ53NWIY Crisanto

      Who told you there’s a poor regulations in gun control here?

      • http://profile.yahoo.com/OBTGTKV4SLI6HZCEV7AHTZA5XI Juanlatigo-olbulatego

        columbine, red lake, virginia tech, colorado, sandy hook the list goes on, should you want another massacre to tell you about something so obvious and again reply to the sad news with that who-told-you kind of remark? open your eyes lest the victims tell you personally.

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